Does anybody here do much online dating? As I’ve said before, I haven’t done that much of it, but I’m lucky living where I live because there is a modest but fairly vibrant community of gay men and several clubs and bars for men to meet and dance, so finding men has been pretty easy […]

What do you men do when you have been fucked so long and hard that you can’t sit down? ;-}
My beau and I are in that stage of a relationship where we have been fighting a lot, as we clarify our limits and our needs to each other. It’s been miserable at times, as such […]

I like to read a few tekky culture blogs every day - it helps me keep up with technical stuff at work. I came across this New Yorker article, about a gay man out with a friend to try and buy some weed, and even tho it’s definitely strange, I also thought it was sweet, […]

Sorry about that guys - it’s all cock and fun and fine meals for me these days.
I think I’m getting a little fatter. Does love do that to you?
This will probably end badly for my heart, but it sure has been fun so far.
I’ll try to write again soon - I’m working on an idea.

Oh my god, I’m not sure I can take the stress and strain of “Young Love” anymore. The guy I’ve been seeing is in his early twenties, a bit more than ten years younger than me, and while it’s a ton of fun when it is going well, when it isn’t it’s got to be […]

It’s getting pretty wintry up here in the north, and I’ve been going to parties - the first little round of gay thanksgiving parties (because we’re thankful we’re not at home with the parents enduring a traditional turkey day) started last week, and with this short week at work, and an easy week next week […]

Is Being Gay In The Genes Or In The Heart?
A while back, a few month’s at least, I remember reading some articles that discussed some Italian scientists study that suggested a genetic explanation for being gay. Male gay at least, I’m not sure if it had anything to say about gay females. The idea was […]

Well, it’s true what they say. You can get used to anything.
I finally starting to get used to the new regime at work, the “war culture” of the new company, and the things I have been having to do to keep my job. The people who were above me are gone, a lot of the […]